Buying a house also means moving in next door to strangers. And depending on the kind of relationship you develop with these new neighbours, their close proximity can become uncomfortable.
Especially since moving house again isn’t exactly a straightforward option when you’re a homeowner! So, does the ideal neighbour actually exist, or is it just a real estate myth?
A Very Subjective Idea
Of course, what it means to be the perfect neighbour is different for everyone!
What one person considers acceptable may bother another. For example, an outgoing neighbour who frequently hosts barbeques might be well liked by one family but seen as too noisy by someone else looking for peace and quiet.
Similarly, some people might find a neighbour who keeps to themselves as ideal, while people who want to interact more may perceive them as aloof.
Thus, what constitutes the “perfect neighbour” depends largely on each person’s expectations and lifestyle.
Top Traits of a Good Neighbour
While opinions vary, certain traits tend to come up time and again when discussing what makes a good neighbour.
- Noise control is probably the most important thing. Nobody likes waking up to construction at 7 a.m. or hearing loud music late at night.
- Cleanliness also plays a major role. A neighbour who looks after their property contributes to the neighbourhood’s overall appeal and to the value of the surrounding homes.
- Good communication remains key. A neighbour who lets their neighbours know in advance about renovation work or a party shows consideration, which makes peaceful coexistence easier.
Small Day-to-Day Annoyances
Even in the best neighbourhoods, problems inevitably arise. The seemingly perfect neighbour may still have some exasperating habits.
Various factors can cause friction, such as
- messy yards;
- neglected landscaping;
- badly parked cars;
- barking dogs;
- roaming pets that leave droppings in neighbours’ yards;
- odours (smoke, etc.).
It’s worth remembering that, in most cases, this isn’t malicious behaviour but simply a difference in lifestyle.
Why Knowing the Area Matters
Neighbours play an often-underestimated role in overall satisfaction with a property purchase. A beautiful house can lose its appeal if the buyer finds the immediate surroundings unpleasant.
That’s why real estate brokers frequently recommend exploring a neighbourhood at different times of the day before buying. The neighbourhood’s atmosphere can change dramatically from morning to evening and on weekends.
That said, even the most sought-after neighbourhoods are rarely perfect in every way. Every area has its own little quirks.
Flexibility Over Perfection
Rather than searching for the perfect neighbour, it’s usually more practical to focus on adaptability. Good neighbourly relations are built on tolerance, communication and mutual respect.
In many cases, minor disputes are easily resolved through honest and open discussion. A neighbour who is unaware that their actions are disruptive can easily adjust their behaviour if approached calmly.
A Drop in Property Value?
Although a “live and let live” attitude between neighbours is important, one shouldn’t downplay the impact the neighbourhood can have on a property’s value. An orderly, peaceful neighbourhood draws in more potential buyers. Conversely, issues in a neighbourhood can impede a sale.
In some extreme cases, repeated disagreements or significant disturbances can even affect a home’s sale price.
Moreover, if you’re selling your property and have been involved in disputes with the neighbours, you should explain the circumstances to your real estate broker. They will know whether the situation needs to be disclosed in the Declarations by the Seller.
Happy house hunting!